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my ex and i broke up 4 months ago and hes acting so childish?
i was ready, willing, and able to move but unfortunately, like most break ups, there was massive amounts of drama that i couldnt control. for the most part, i let a lot of things go but some things i had to confront (since he was going around talking so poorly about me that it got back to my boss). we dated for almost 2 years, we lived together, and invested a lot into the relationship. why is it that he is acting as if he hates me? first he told people he was just with me for s*x, then he said it was because he was lonely. i dont think someone would tell their significant other they want to marry them if that were the case. ive literally never been so hated in my entire life (and ive had other bfs in which im friendly with till this day) why is he so hositle? only nice advice please/.
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- Anonymous5 years agoFavorite Answer
Did you date a co-worker? This is what happens.
I cannot see any other reason why an ex would have contact with you boss.
If your ex is also a co-worker, ANYTHING you do will only make YOU look worse. You just have to put up with it and weather it out. Those who know you will not believe his lies, and if he goes around saying he was just using you for sex, that reflects badly on HIM .. not on you. Even just saying it was because he was lonely makes HIM look pathetic.
If he is not a co-worker, the same principle still applies. By trying to defend yourself, YOU look pathetic.
Hold your head up high, be proud of who you are. Have enough dignity to walk in the knowledge of your worth as a person.
Those who like you will not believe the lies, ad those who don't will never believe your self-defense, will only dislike you MORE because they will think you are the liar.
No, don't bother to confront him. All you do is show him that he CAN bother you .. which is why he is doing it in the first place. By showing that you are bothered by his behavior, you reward that behavior and increase it.