What is my moral obligation to help take care of my mother?

This is something only you can answer. You have two choices, help your elderly mother knowing that she favors another sibling, but still feel good about yourself. Or, choose to not help her because you feel betrayed and bitter by her choices and actions. This is a difficult one, you have no moral obligation to your mother (even if others say "She s your mom, you re supposed to take care of her!"). If she treated you badly throughout your life and you never truly felt loved by her, you do not have to search for her approval. On the other hand, if you feel that by helping her it gives you peace of mind and knowing that you have compassion, even if that person doesn t deserve it, then help her. Do not judge yourself either way. Do what you feel, inside, that is best to do for YOU.

Moral obligation is for all the children to help out in some way. Sometimes it's just not practical. You have to do what's right for you and what you can live with after.

The child that is getting 1/2 the estate should do most of the care for your mother.

You should do what you think you should do. Helping her will make you feel better when she passes. You won't have any guilt feelings.

Each of the 9 children should help out. If not equally then as close to equal as possible. Use a lawyer if necessary.

Do what you can. You needn't give up your weekends or drain your retirement account but out h in a little.

Morally you should help her, as she is your mother, not for the financial reward you will gain when she dies

i think you should take care of her since she took care of you