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I dont know what to do :(?
I check my gf phone and she made a call to her ex while she was at work for 11 mins. I am a single father and she is very nice to my son . I love her . She is been loyal to me. I feel like i have alot of trust issues . I alwas tell her that if she loves me foreal . I alsp tell jer that if she ever doesnt feel the same for me that i vould step back and leave if she tells me but i dont know if should feel bad about this. I dont want tl tell her am able to see who she calls because i use an app . what should i do?
1 Answer
- 5 years ago
I think you are over thinking the situation. Her making a call to her ex doesn't mean anything. Also, if you really love her, then you need to let go of your fear and trust her.I understand that it sounds really corny, but constantly thinking your lover is cheating or doesn't love you back is debilitating. I think you would do best to let your fear go. I think a first step in doing that would be to delete your app, and for 2 reasons. 1. You need to respect her privacy, and 2. It will force you to trust her more. Next, understand exactly why you are afraid. Identify your perspective on that. Lastly, have good communication. If something is bothering you, such as a personal issue, you shouldn't be repressive to talk about it. This way you know you can be trustworthy and that she can be trusted.
Also, having this constant fear won't make her cheat any less than she would have anyways. Point being, your fear doesn't help you. It only limits you from trusting her.
Source(s): Trust and communication in my opinion are the 2 most important parts of any personal relationship.
