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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 5 years ago

What do I do or say?

I have a job offer, but it is four hours away from where I am living now. It comes with free housing. Now this is where it gets messed up, I have two kids, and currently live with my parents where my boyfriend is not allowed to stay with me. Our youngest is three weeks old and the fact that he can't stay with me is very hard. My parents want me to either stay here with them where I can keep being miserable or leave my daughter here! Witch is completely out of the quiestion. If I don't leave her here my parents are going to be very pissed off at me. I just don't know what to say or do. Opinions? (And obviously I'm not going to just leave my daughter here while I move four hours away!)

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  • 5 years ago

    That Confederate flag thing is a Total Turn Off

  • 5 years ago

    You say, "I am the parent and will be taking my children with me when I move out." That's all you need to say.

  • Gert
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Why did you apply for a job that far away right after having a baby??? Poor planning.

  • 5 years ago

    welp, U CHOSE to have a child and U CHOSE to allow her to be so invested in ur parents life..Just cause i all of a sudden get free rent doesnt help ur child who is attached to her grandparents AND who is stable in her environment.

    I suggest u put ur kid first and find u another job so she dont have to be shuffled around.

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  • 5 years ago

    Take your children and your man and leave IF he isn't a bum. If he is you need the stability of your parents and he need to get his s#@the together.

  • 5 years ago

    go take the job and put her in daycare

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