I'm married for 1 n half yrs.After marriage everything was going well.But problem started when my husband called my bro-in-law to stay?

To make things better just be calm and move slowly .As you know your husband wont say anything to his brother and he wants him to help in your business .

Do one thing ,tell your hubby to find some job outside where he can grow with time ,says that in my work there is not much work & i can handle it else says i need some professional person for my work .

Even you should search some job for him and make him motivatie always .

Dont make your lovely sweet house a quarrel house where you both fight with each other for 3rd person .

Your are an entrepenur you know how to handle things , but you are doing it in business not in your house .You can use ur cal brain to make your brother in law work and stay away from your business .

If you take an AIM for one year tel your self i will make by bro in law work in some other city you can do , take it as a project ,

You can do anything for your business to make it better , what are you doing to make it better home ,

So no fight just concentrate on your motive which you have set ..For more answer you can mail me at manavmundhra@ymail.com

I am seeing a happy future of your can you see it ?

Threaten to move out and leave these two men together. I wonder how long that would last. I suspect your husband is using his brother as a reason not to be committed to your marriage, under the guise of "helping" him get on his feet. They have codependent relationship where you have no actual place. You need strong medicine for this. Say you're moving out and if nothing changes, actually go. Then you'll see where your husband's allegiance actually lies.

Tell your husband that you understand he has a permanent bond with his brother but you have a relationship with him not the two of them. The brother is not suitable to help with your business and you can't continue to live with him. If your husband has to support him then agree to pay for a cheap rented room in a shared house elsewhere. Tell him you can't live with him any more.

tell your husband, If he love his brother, then teach him how to be independent. stop giving him fish all the time, start giving him a fishing rod so he can catch his own fish.

tell him that you don't need his brother to help you out in your business. and your business is nothing if it meant it will break your marriage.

It's YOUR business. You have the ultimate say about who you employ, not your husband.

If your husband is so keen to have his brother working, why doesn't HE employ him?

Male your husband to drcide what you want.

If he still insist his brother stsying with you, just move yourself out and file for divorce.

Then he will understand.

a br0ther is m0re imprtant than a wife whne it c0mes d0wn t0 it.