Is this sexually harrassment ?

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Basically one day my co worker said he was good at math and could help me so we face timed for a bit and then after he asked if I wanted to join a Skype call with a bunch of his friends .... I didn't have anything else to do and I was bored so I was like sure why not ...
But all the sudden they all started making sexual remarks like asking me to suck there **** for chicken nuggets and asking me to send nudes to like the whole group ( it was like 8 guys ) and a bunch of other nasty sexual stuff I got upset and started bitching at them and they got mad at me saying how I was in the wrong for getting so mad ... Basically I work with this kid and next weekend my other co worker switched two shifts with him and I'll be stuck with him for hours :( I haven't said anything to the manager because luckily I haven't been scedualled with him before ... I have bad anxiety and I like will cry if I have to talk to him and stuff . Like am I just over reacting , .. I  don't want to get him in trouble I just don't want to work with him ... But like I want to talk to the managers about it but I'm scared I'm overreactin or just causing drama ... Opinions?:/

Kitty · Answer

Go to your manager and tell him what has happened and ask what the next steps are that you should do. That is not acceptable. You also have to work with this guy and if you think working with this guy will make your anxiety worse then go tell your manager straight away ! 
You're not overreacting. He shouldn't be acting that way at all.

Sandy · Answer

As soon as his friends got ugly, all you had to do was sign off. Ignore this guy, and don't talk to him unless it pertains to the job. Just turn him off like a light switch. He's a jerk. AND DON'T CRY!! It weakens you to everybody. If you have to cry, do it in private. Stay and be strong!!

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Is this sexually harrassment ?

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