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Sex on the first date?

I've been talking to a friend recently and agreed to go on a date with him this week (supposedly just as friends) but he has been extremely flirtatious and yeah I've been flirty back. I would totally sleep with him problem is I don't really want a relationship, to me it would be just sex but he's always kinda liked me so I feel like he would get the idea that I'm really into him and want a relationship if we have sex. He's a really good guy and I'm sure we could make a relationship work if I gave it a chance. Its just been a really long time since I've had sex (like 2 years) so I'm pretty much ready to jump his bones lol plus there's the whole I don't sleep around thing where I kinda have the reputation of innocence and people don't expect me to be like that (its how I was raised). And I've only slept with one other person. So I really don't want to come across as easy but seriously need to get me some lol any ideas as to how to approach this situation?

And just so you know I'm 23 so not a child I know how to deal responsibly with sex

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  • 4 years ago

    Tell him how you feel and what you want to do with him and see if he goes for it. Most guys would jump at the chance to have sex on the first date.

  • 5 years ago

    Tell HIM how you feel. You can't make the decision for him. Even guys don't want to be used for mercy sex, so don't approach it that way. You two seriously need to talk about this.

  • 5 years ago

    I can't stand girls that want to do this to the nice guy. If you just want sex, go get you a man whore and do it. Stop messing with the heads of the good guys and leave them for the good girls who will actually appreciate them.

  • Try not too (if you really care about the person) and you want to make the relationship a lasting one.

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  • 5 years ago

    I wish i had met you a few years ago. Just be honest with him and see what happens but by all means, go get you some baby !!!!

  • 5 years ago

    Trust me, he will more than likely love to hear that and not to want a relationship but just be straight with him.

  • 5 years ago

    It's a massive whatever on this end.

  • 5 years ago

    I guess tell him how you feel before anything happens

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