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It's been less than 3 weeks since we broke up. I ended it because there was so much drama and fighting going on because he didn't have lots of time for me. After a week no contact we started to talk and I realized I want him and only him and can't picture being with anyone else. He always said he wanted me and loved me and never wanted to break up and we were talking about how to fix our issues. We ended up sleeping together when I asked him to come see me because I was so sad. Then 3 days later he went and slept with another women. Drunkenly and apparently by accident. I feel so hurt and betrayed. I know we weren't together together but we were definitely talking about it. How could he do that if he still wanted me? Is that how men function do they just bang the next available girl? He said he was "giving up" but I know if it had been me I could never have moved on that fast. What do you think? Did he care does he still want me or should I move on? I asked him to wait for me to figure out how I feel so he says he's not going to sleep with anyone else. What do I do? He's 29 and I'm 25 so this isn't just teenage heartache i truly thought I'd marry him and he said he still thinks of me as the women he wants to marry.

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25 y/o female ive tried 2 different kinds of pills the ones that fluctuate in hormone levels and the one that stays the same all month (only take 2 sugar pills instead of a week). But I don't like how low my sex drive is or vaginal dryness and my emotions seems to still go crazy so I kinda want to try the copper IUD as it's non hormonal. Concerns are I've heard of people getting pregnant heavy bleeding and bad cramps. Or it can imbed in things it should not and wreck your ability to have kids later. I will be talking to my doctor and getting her opinion but I would like as many opinions as possible. Thanks in advance?

Our relationship has got very bad recently. I know I'm unhappy and that I really dont see a future with him. He has a kid and I've never been allowed to be involved in that part of his life which is a major issue along with his lack of communication and he has no time for me as he's either super busy working or farming. I'm always mad at him for these reasons so I've told him its over. (For real this time as I've tried to break up before) he keeps saying he loves me and can make it work but I've heard that excuse so many times. I want to move on with my life but at the same time I want him to reach out to me to call me to try to fight for me and make it right (cause that's what he said he wants). Do I just not want it to be over for real? Is this normal for most women to still want them to try? We've been dating for a year and a half. It just feels like he's too busy to even try to win me back shouldn't that seal the deal and let me know there's nothing left? Please anyone with advise?

It has been over a month since we had sex and usually we are intimate 1-3 times a week. He went away to work for 3 weeks so I know that's part of it but when he came back he barely even tried to touch me. It doesn't help I was mad at him so I told him he had to earn his way back into my bed but still eventually he'd start groping me turning me on making me want him only to stop and go to sleep. I gave him the go ahead about 3 days ago and would touch him and get him turned on and I asked him if I was torturing him as much as me and he actually said no not really. Finally this morning we had sex but I wasn't even into it anymore he didn't bother to turn me on and then finished before I had. What gives shouldn't he want me more after such a long break?

I used to enjoy it with him but lately I just get nothing out of it. I have had a lack of sex drive lately and have a hard time getting in the mood (literally have to use lube or hes not allowed in) so oral would really help if i could figure out what would work better. I can't really practice it myself and he tries so very hard and I know he loves to do it but nothing seems to get things going. I dont like rough at all and my "button" is super sensitive and hardly likes to be lighty touched or anything. I feel so bad eveytime I have to tap him out hes disappointed he cant get me there. Is there something I can do or tell him to try?

I just came back from not seeing him for a couple of days and he didnt want to have sex. He said he'd rather sleep and snuggle. He groped me for a bit and that was it. I tried using my hand on him but he stayed soft. Is it me? What am I doing wrong? He says he enjoys it with me and he seems to when we actually do. I know he jerks off a lot. I don't get why he wants to use his hand when I'm not around but doesn't want me when I'm actually available. This is not the first time this has happened. Its not like I just lay there like a zombie we go through a lot of positions throughout and I feel like I'm trying really hard to make him happy. What gives?

We met on tinder havent actually met in person yet but I've asked him to come meet me at the bar tomorrow night which is about an hours drive for him. I've told him he can stay with me. But he takes forever to reply and sometimes opens my messages and doesn't reply. Is he not into a hook up or have I not made it clear that sex is definetly on the table?? Idk if he's a good guy and doesn't expect us to sleep together or if he's into us hooking up? Any thoughts??

I really don't want to disappoint him as we've been pretty flirty and there's a lot of sexal tension. We agreed to meet at the bar for dancing but he's from out if town so he would obviously be staying with me even though we haven't actually discussed sleeping arrangements. I don't want to hurt myself but I feel like its almost healed I could maybe go through with it. I really want to sleep with him its not a question of want its a question of ability more lol should I tell him if he comes there's a possibility we won't sleep together? I dont want to assume he's thinking that but I also don't want him to think he's coming all this way for s*x and then it not be worth his while.

Recently had a doctors appointment where she asked me if I've ever been sexually active. I said yes even though its been almost 2 years since and it was only 1 time. (I didn't want to lie) anyways she said I'll need to come in for a pap smear which I'm going for next month now. Anyways I'm sure during the pap she will ask me about birth control. I'm not sure I want it. I've heard it messes with your body but I would really like that backup for when I actually do have sex again just in case the condom fails. What's your experience with it. Pill or other forms? I'm pretty good at taking medication I have one I have to take everyday anyways so I'd just add to it. Or should I wait seen as I haven't had sex in 2 years and don't plan on it right away as I don't have a bf right now. Plus any advice for not being nervous for the pap smear would be great cause I'm a little nervous about someone being down there lol

I'm seeing this guy tonight and there's a high chance we could have sex. I really really want to but I'm nervous about getting pregnant. My period tracker says I'm going to ovulate tomorrow which means there's an extremely high chance of pregnancy if something were to go wrong. I will absolutely not be having sex without a condom but I'm not on the pill and condoms can break... If this were a different time during my cycle I would go for it but because of the ovulation I'm in the fence. Is there something else I can do to double my protection or should I just tell him I'm in my period and wait for a less fertile time lol

FYI I am in mid 20s so more than old enough to be dealing with sex, this is just something that I fear every time I do it.

I have a friend who I am going on a date with this week. I really don't want to come across as easy but I really want to sleep with him. We agreed this is a date between 2 friends and we'll go from there. I'm too shy to just straight up ask him what he wants from this but I know I don't really want a relationship just sex. He's definetly got around a lot and I don't know if he's just into me for sex (because he texts me so randomly) and also anytime we've hung out has been at the bar usually drunk. First time we met he was definetly trying to take me home but we lost each other by the end of the night. So do I make it obvious what I want or do I keep it strictly friends and find a one night stand instead? We're aren't the best of friends but I really don't want either of us to get hurt (mainly by him spreading around that I had sex with him on the first date cause that's definetly not the kind of girl I am) I just need a little sex right now lol

I've been talking to a friend recently and agreed to go on a date with him this week (supposedly just as friends) but he has been extremely flirtatious and yeah I've been flirty back. I would totally sleep with him problem is I don't really want a relationship, to me it would be just sex but he's always kinda liked me so I feel like he would get the idea that I'm really into him and want a relationship if we have sex. He's a really good guy and I'm sure we could make a relationship work if I gave it a chance. Its just been a really long time since I've had sex (like 2 years) so I'm pretty much ready to jump his bones lol plus there's the whole I don't sleep around thing where I kinda have the reputation of innocence and people don't expect me to be like that (its how I was raised). And I've only slept with one other person. So I really don't want to come across as easy but seriously need to get me some lol any ideas as to how to approach this situation?

And just so you know I'm 23 so not a child I know how to deal responsibly with sex

My horse is a bay overo paint gelding. I have shown him in teal and purple most recently. I have found a few shirts that I like but would like some opinions on what you think would look the best with him. I show showmanship, western pleasure and horsemanship so need something that looks good on the ground and while riding. Mostly I show at in local shows/fairs but I do one APHA show. I'm probably planning on buying 2 or 3 at once to save on shipping so if you wanted to list your favourites that would be great! Thanks in advance!!

My Horse:

http://i1286.photobucket.com/albums/a601/beccastud...

http://i1286.photobucket.com/albums/a601/beccastud...

The Shirts:

http://www.ebay.ca/itm/351246031549?ssPageName=STR...

http://www.ebay.ca/itm/351245015393?ssPageName=STR...

http://www.ebay.ca/itm/311201471723?ssPageName=STR...

http://www.ebay.ca/itm/311044185786?ssPageName=STR...

http://www.ebay.ca/itm/351244063658?ssPageName=STR...

http://www.ebay.ca/itm/MEDIUM-Showmanship-Pleasure...

http://www.ebay.ca/itm/SMALL-Showmanship-Pleasure-...

Going to my first APHA show in 2 weeks. My show season normally starts in July so my horse is all shed out by then. He is pretty well all shed out now but his face especially around his ears is still fuzzy. Should I clip it to take out the fuzzy or would that look goofy? He is a bay with a big bald face. I don't think I want to clip the whole face just the outsides of the ears and the fur by his bridle path. Thoughts?? Or would 2 weeks be enough for it to grow back a bit and not look dumb??

So there's this guy I know, he's a virgin, I'm a virgin. I kind of already turned him down once for sex on the night we met cause I was nervous, but now I want to have sex with him. I met him in February and we talked a bit on and off but I haven't actually texted him since March. Last time I seen him was about 2 weeks ago when a group of our friends went to the bar. I feel like it would be weird for me to just text him out of the blue like this and have it somehow turn into sex (ie .I'm thinking: "Hey I'm bored we should go cruising and have some fun ;)"). His friends all want him to sleep with me and mine want me to sleep with him so I'm sure it wouldn't be hard to convince him, I just don't want to be so blunt about it cause I'm a rather shy person. Plus I still live with my parents and he does too so I'm thinking the backseat of the truck is where the deed will take place lol

Were both 21 btw so its not like were children, I have condoms and I know what I would be getting into, I just really want to have sex.

My friend and I are going out to the bar on Saturday night. Both of our parents would be fine to drive us and pick us up they've done it before. This weekend though we might not go home we might be staying with our boyfriends. So the dilemma is do we tell our parents were staying at a friends in town and won't be coming home? But then what if we don't end up staying with the guys, then we need to go home but our parents aren't expecting us. Usually we go home around 2:30 but that's a little late to be calling parents with a phonecalls they aren't expecting. Plus both our moms are worry warts so they would assume something bad happened that we needed an emergency ride home. Any ideas how to pull this off? Biggest thing is its not certain we will be staying with our boyfriends cause they may not come out with us

I'm trying to figure out a show shirt to buy this year but there's a couple I like but am not sure if they would suit my horse so I'm looking for some opinions.

My horse is a bay overo. http://i1286.photobucket.com/albums/a601/beccastud...

http://i1286.photobucket.com/albums/a601/beccastud...

Last year we used teal and I really liked it and got tons of comments so I am open to going teal again but there's also a rusty coloured shirt I really like but don't know how well it will go with him. http://www.hobbyhorseinc.com/shopping/broken-heart...

And I really like this blue one too http://www.hobbyhorseinc.com/shopping/broken-heart... My third pick is http://www.hobbyhorseinc.com/shopping/broken-heart... (you have to change the colour to see the teal version).

Which one is your favourite that you think would go with my horse?

Also this is the website http://www.hobbyhorseinc.com/shopping/tunics/ so if you feel like looking and seeing any others you think would go with him that would be cool.

I have both a black and a tan hat and a variety of pads (navy, black, teal, tan) and can also buy a different colour if need be.

Thanks so much for your opinions I will pick a best answer!!

I'm looking for a new English saddle. I just do rail work and some dressage (by some I mean 1-2 tests in a year and they are extremely laidback). I have no intentions to jump. I'm wondering what's your personal opinion on style of saddle to get? All purpose or dressage?? I'm looking purely for equitation, which saddle makes it easier to keep your equitation. I had used an all purpose for a couple shows last year but my friend said it looked more like a jumper and it made keeping my equitation very difficult but I had used a different all purpose before that and it was great. But I am just worried that some all purposes will still be more like jumpers. Do you think dressage saddle would be the safer bet or should I still go with an all purpose? Also if you know some good brands that arn't too pricey would be helpful too. And I do like the synthetic saddles too (like wintec).

Thanks in advance!