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Why doesn't my boyfriend seem interested in sex anymore?
It has been over a month since we had sex and usually we are intimate 1-3 times a week. He went away to work for 3 weeks so I know that's part of it but when he came back he barely even tried to touch me. It doesn't help I was mad at him so I told him he had to earn his way back into my bed but still eventually he'd start groping me turning me on making me want him only to stop and go to sleep. I gave him the go ahead about 3 days ago and would touch him and get him turned on and I asked him if I was torturing him as much as me and he actually said no not really. Finally this morning we had sex but I wasn't even into it anymore he didn't bother to turn me on and then finished before I had. What gives shouldn't he want me more after such a long break?
5 Answers
- ?Lv 73 years agoFavorite Answer
He's holding a grudge, pure and simple. Some sort of unresolved ill feelings towards you.
I've been there.
Eventually, I simply sat down with the GF and we talked it all out. We let all the hard feelings get aired, tried to understand why that bothered each other, and then forgave each other. Much better after that. I suggest you sit down with your BF when you two have some quiet time (not right before bed or when the game is on) and talk it all out. Try not to be defensive nor attack. This is a problem solving exercise where you need to hear each other and understand each other. If he starts acting defensive, try and deflect it and focus on just getting the feelings out there.
- Blue SkyLv 73 years ago
I'll keep my answer short and to the point. Someone needs to grow up and its not you're boyfriend.
- Obi Wan KnievelLv 73 years ago
He's playing your little game back on you, dummy.
Feminism was a great idea at first. Voting rights, equal pay for equal work... that stuff was smart. Then the feminists got stupid and let men know that women like sex too.
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- 3 years ago
You were mad at him so he had to earn his way back into your bed?
Has it occurred to you that the tables have turned and now what you've got really isn't that desirable to him?
