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How to approach a guy for sex?
So there's this guy I know, he's a virgin, I'm a virgin. I kind of already turned him down once for sex on the night we met cause I was nervous, but now I want to have sex with him. I met him in February and we talked a bit on and off but I haven't actually texted him since March. Last time I seen him was about 2 weeks ago when a group of our friends went to the bar. I feel like it would be weird for me to just text him out of the blue like this and have it somehow turn into sex (ie .I'm thinking: "Hey I'm bored we should go cruising and have some fun ;)"). His friends all want him to sleep with me and mine want me to sleep with him so I'm sure it wouldn't be hard to convince him, I just don't want to be so blunt about it cause I'm a rather shy person. Plus I still live with my parents and he does too so I'm thinking the backseat of the truck is where the deed will take place lol
Were both 21 btw so its not like were children, I have condoms and I know what I would be getting into, I just really want to have sex.
Any clever ideas of where to tell my parents I'm going if he picks me up? Most of my friends have moved back home since school is done so I don't really have that excuse plus I don't know how long I would be gone...lol
4 Answers
- Anonymous7 years agoFavorite Answer
Hey I hope what I will say can help you out:
Well if you really feel like you are ready to have sex you should/if you don't already get to know him a but better. And after you guys hang out more and more, then I say go for it. The first time is always a but awkward I know mine was. But anyway as for having sex for the first time in a car, I don't know because there isn't much space. Haha but yeah if you feel like you can't wait much longer go for it, just ask him if he wants to hang out and then while y'all are driving around of something then just ask him of he still wants to have sex with you. I'm sure he will be down for it.
- 7 years ago
Well, if you have to ask this question then you aren't ready....I personally, think you should wait until you are married to have sex because then it would be more meaningful. I mean it's better to do it with someone who you are actually in love with and not some random person. Your first time should be your wedding night and not whenever you feel like it, but again, it's really up to you....it's your body. If you want to really lose it to him then do it. I personally, think you should wait, but sometimes raging hormones get the best of you and in a moment of weakness shits happen. I never once tried to seduce any men or even kiss a guy and made him hard, let alone, have "blue ball," but whatever. Good luck and hope you think it over before you do it. :)
