Sex advice and avoiding pregnancy?

No matter how old you are, if you aren't using reliable contraception, and really don't want to be pregnant, then you CAN choose to not have sex. You don't need to lie or make an excuse. "I don't want to risk any chance of pregnancy right now." Then you can either just spend time together doing non-sexual things, or you can do sexual activities that don't involve a pregnancy risk. (Oral, manual, anal, etc.)

If you are determined to have vaginal intercourse, then a vaginal spermicide along with a condom (which used, carefully and correctly would be very unlikely to break) would significantly increase your protection.

(And for the future, if you are 'always' fearing pregnancy when you have sex, then perhaps you would want to consider getting onto a reliable method of contraception.)

You can use an additional spermicide. You can go to the doctor and get an emergency IUD put in. You can put off having sex. You can get medication and therapy for anxiety. You can talk to him about what you would both want to do if you got pregnant. You can tell yourself that your chance of getting pregnant is only 25% in any particular month.

Frankly, if you go through this anxiety every time, then that is a message you're trying to tell yourself that this relationship isn't right for sex at this time. Something to think about.

Your anxiety is not going to make for good sex. Tell him that you need to get proper and reliable contraception before you have intercourse but there are plenty of ways to enjoy each other for now.

Morning After pill?

I think there's a lie in here so.where but if you are in your twenties there is no reason you aren't on birth control. I bet you aren't in your twenties at all

Eww

The safest way is abstain. Next, put it off for when you are not ovulating.

If the condom breaks, buy Plan B.

There, problem solved.