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What can we do differently so I can enjoy oral sex?

I used to enjoy it with him but lately I just get nothing out of it. I have had a lack of sex drive lately and have a hard time getting in the mood (literally have to use lube or hes not allowed in) so oral would really help if i could figure out what would work better. I can't really practice it myself and he tries so very hard and I know he loves to do it but nothing seems to get things going. I dont like rough at all and my "button" is super sensitive and hardly likes to be lighty touched or anything. I feel so bad eveytime I have to tap him out hes disappointed he cant get me there. Is there something I can do or tell him to try?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    3 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Its your sudden lack of interests and lack of sex drive that is causing this to happen. So focus on addressing that and hopefully things will change for the better. You might also be falling out of love with your boyfriend. Communication is important, so don't be afraid to talk to him about this.

  • 3 years ago

    What can we do differently so I can enjoy oral sex?

    I think so!

  • ?
    Lv 7
    3 years ago

    It's your body, you have to figure it out. We don't have your lady parts. Everyone is not the same.

    As far as a lack of sex drives goes, our hormones are like the tides. They ebb and flow.

    Maybe you're over thinking, too. Perhaps you could take a break from sex for a few days or a week and you might feel differently?

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