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Would you let your 19 year old neice marry a 36 year old?

My brother don't even seem to care but it's really bothering me... I just think the man is being a pedophile... But my brother said he known him for a while and trust him please help any advice is appreciated

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  • 4 years ago

    you dont have a choice, since theyre both over 18 then its legal

  • Rick
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    Don't know which way it will go, divorce or not. Maybe you could get her interested in the TV show Dark Angel. You can see the lust for a hot virgin in that guy's acting. If she will watch it after she finishes let her know the story of a 19 yo being taken advantage of by an older man.

  • 4 years ago

    Personally I wouldn't approve at all...But love is Love. Try to ask her why she is sooo in love with him. Try to get to know the guy and decide if you think he really is a decent man. It also depends on how long they have been dating...Maybe you can convince her to wait before settling down, and explaining to her the severity of marriage.

  • 4 years ago

    i wouldn't say anything but i would think she was too young. If she were 24+ it wouldn't be so bad.

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  • 4 years ago

    She is above the age of consent. Therefore it is her decision, not yours to worry about.

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