would you be angry at your daughter for this?

I think it depends on whether the mother is expected to help her financially through her unemployment.... if so, then yes if were in the mother's shoes I would be a little angry and I would also have to put my foot down and say "hey, I can't help you. I didn't financially plan on taking care of you the rest of my life. I'm sorry."

I don't see why angry. Sounds like she is an adult and making her own choices. You have to let go and control what you can. I would not fund her been irresponsible, so don't enable, but not out of anger. Here is a different point of view : the mother should not fun the degree if she thinks that will give her some form of control on the daughter's life. You fund or don't as your choice. The daughter's life still belongs to her, as are the consequences for her actions.

No. Duh.

She's between jobs.

Where do boomers get this idea companies that hire you for life still exist?

No, I'd be annoyed at myself for paying all her fees when she has a history of unemployment.