Freeloading aunt won't leave?

if she applies for ssi she can get money from social services while shes applying

If you rent, blame it on the landlord. Anyone there more than 30 days must be on the lease or vacate the premises immediately. She has no job, she would never be approved. Boom. Done.

If your parents own your home, they will have to ask her to leave and put it in writing. If she refuses, you can have her evicted, which means the Sheriff will eventually come and kick her out. The whole process takes about 6 months.

I just can't stand a woman who refuses to stand on her own two feet. I mean it's sad that her man died, but she is still capable of functioning. She needs to be filling out job applications at every business withing a three mile radius. What makes her so special that SHE gets to be taken care of at the expense of everyone around her? F that lady! There would be no meals, no chilling on the sofa, she'd have to get her @ss out of my house every day from sun up to sun down until she found a job. I wouldn't do s#!t else for her.

Finally, maybe now is the time for you to step up and start learning to stand on YOUR own two feet. At age 16, I got a job at a movie theater on the weekends. I was still in High School, but I had money in my pocket, gasoline in my car. I moved out when I was 17 and went to college. Been on my own ever since.

My maternal granny moved in to stay for six months. She was only 57 and was capable of working. She decided to let my father support her and stayed for 23 years.

Lots of luck prying a relation out of your home. Plan on leaving yourself as getting her out may be a bigger problem than your leaving on your own volition.

When you say you live with your mom in a 2 bedroom, are you an adult on the lease with her and the 2 of you split the bills? Or is this her apartment, and you're a teen still living at home?

This matters, because if the apartment is mom's, then it doesn't help to ask what "we" can do. There is no "we", and your aunt will be there until your mom finally gets sick of it. There are all sorts of things she can do, but it's tricky when the conditions weren't made clear upfront. Your mum was well intended, but never let a freeloader into your home without getting an informal "contract" written up where the person promises to do certain things.

It sounds like she can start by telling aunt she has to be gone by the end of the month. At least give aunt a chance. But if she's still there, it's time for hardball. Her key should be taken away. If the apartment has storage, when she leaves, her stuff should be packed in bags, stuck in the storage unit, and locked. She doesn't get the key to it.

In some cases, she can also get help from the landlord. I've heard of people asking him to send a letter saying there are too many adults not on the lease living there, and one of them has to be gone by the end of the month. It's not legally enforceable but might wake aunt up.

Also, if this is a big complex, your mum can ask about another 2 bedroom. Landlords are used to this and will work with good tenants. Worst case scenario is you wait until the lease runs out and look for an apartment somewhere else. Needless to say, aunt will be told she's on her own.

You could try saying, "It is time for you to go. You are no longer welcome here."

I recommend you purchase and read the book "Boundaries" by Dr. Henry Cloud. Make sure your mother and brother read it too.

just ask when u leavin beitch