Do I look dangerously overweight?

You seemed to have gained most in your stomach, which is par for the course is you work a desk job. I'd say change your diet, stop eating bread, pasta, cereals, cake (anything made with flour or grains). You don't necessarily need to drink milk either. Cut out the sugar. Don't drink diet soda (all they do is cause many people to feel hungry anyway).

Try Atkins diet. Seriously... most men lose very quickly on this diet. And it's a great way of eating. I enjoy it.

You are fat.

a little pudgy

U are a little overweight, maybe try exercise a bit

Not dangerously overweight but you are fat yes.