Why do I feel like such a failure?

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I'm 20 years old and am employed, was kicked out and crashing at my partners house. I just enrolled into community college for the fall but scored so low on the placement test, practically all high school courses. I feel so stupid. All the kids i went to school with have been in school and traveling the world. Yet im here not doing anythinf getting old with no savings and 5 grand in debt. I feel like such a failure. I cant let go of the past either i always feel like im still in high school when i graduated two years ago. Idk what to do. Sometimes i just wanna get away from everything. It makes me sad seeing time go by. Time flies time is a *****! At this point i dont know what to do. Cant afford school. Im in debt and cant find a job. Ive been looking but they dont hire me. I have no friends either other than my partner. I try to reach out to old friends but they ignore me. So that makes me feel worse. I have no friends and im miserable. I hate myself. Im not even good looking... i just dont know amymore

? · Answer

At times like this, ironically you have to count your blessings.  You have a friend.  Someone with a friend shouldn't go looking for another one to boot.  You're lucky to have a friend, and lucky to have your friend's house.  Work on your resume, your job search.  That's the honorable thing to do, because you have to make money to pay off the debt.  Work and money are what you need.  Work at finding jobs to make money.  Meanwhile, help your friend and others any way you can.

Destiny · Answer

Your not a failure it's normal to feel that way because you look at all the other people's life instead of just focusing on you try to look at the brighter things in your life and don't have a lot of negativity

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Why do I feel like such a failure?

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