What is my body type? Average, fat, chunky, chubby, a few extra pounds, obese, or just downright gross? Details below.?

Firstly, before I go on, I'd like to say that I've just ordered some ankle weights and dumbbells to begin toning the muscles I have underneath whatever you call this midsection from having kids. I only had four and my mom said to stop listening to people say how fat I am and how ugly I am, but if I'm not fat, then what am I? I'm not thick, because I don't have a flat belly, wide hips and a nice round butt. I have a belly from giving birth and I've tried crunches, sit ups, push ups, anything to drop this crap off my midsection and everyone who is a friend always says how "No, you're not fat" but I think they are doing it to make me feel better. I plan on trying to do something about this, but look at the photo and PLEASE for the love of God DO NOT sugar coat anything. I don't know what other people see when they look at my body shape. I see grossness but that's me. Please don't be mean about it, I'm emotionally damaged enough, but I just don't know what to say to those who keep on calling me a fat cow and saying that I should off myself.