Feeling sorry for myself :(?

Im sorry you are so upset darling. Dont worry about what other people think and say. If a man ignores you and cheats on you leave him you dont deserve that. Just do me a favor here sweetheart I want you to smile and forget about everyone else. Do what makes you happy.

maybe you should move away so youre around different people

So sorry to hear about your mother and daughter. Aren't you fortunate, though, to have such a good relationship with your father!

To be liked, generally, it helps to be more interestED than interestING. Listening is good for making friends: ask people questions about themselves and their opinions and listen to them without interruption, except for little comments that demonstrate that you're REALLY listening. It shows you are taking them seriously, as in respect and acceptance. Don't sit there thinking about what you will say, because that shows more interest in yourself than them. Little pauses demonstrate that you are thinking about what they have said anyway. You can ask them how they felt about what they have just told you, or other specific questions to show you have been listening and taking them seriously. Be open minded and try not to disagree with people. For example, if they like a band you hate, ask what it is they like about them, best track, etc. (avoid the word, “why” as it can sound challenging). You can always say you don't listen to them much but you will now or something. Asking for advice is also good. Genuinely, of course, & don't overdo it. Ditto information – we feel pleased to tell someone something interesting they did not know, such as what’s on in town, latest sports score, etc., so by showing interest in their opinion, knowledge, etc. you’ll get some good feelings from them. Smiling is a good sign of acceptance. A lot of eye contact can also be good. Remember, if you want to have a friend, you have to BE a friend, and the best way to impress someone is to be impressed by them! One thing you can do is always to ensure you have a straight back: sit, stand and walk tall (hips forward) and take reasonably long, confident strides when you walk: this has the “reverse psychology” effect of helping us to feel more confident. Once we have self respect and a sense of self worth, we tend to find that other people respect us more too.

Good Luck!

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A lesson I learned from very early on this life is live for yourself and never put your faith in others. It's not fun but hey, it beats being trampled on by opportunistic people. The very simple reality is, nobody owes you anything and you don't owe anyone anything either. So don't waste time on anyone else.

First, what do people mean when they accuse you of "feeling sorry for yourself." .... ... If your sympathy for your situation makes you feel stuck and hopeless, the feeling of hopelessness is the issue, NOT your compassion for yourself. Passion is our mental, emotional, physical energy, our motivator.