My attempt at escaping my family has failed. How do I "face the music"?

When I was younger I tended to hole myself away and avoid them. It worked, but it never fixed anything. Perhaps confrontation about the issue, such as a sit down and saying "I know I made [this] mistake, but you made me very upset by saying [this]" would be for the best. Try to explain that you are still young and have plenty of time to find your way in life.

Then again, some people just can't be helped. Sometimes no matter what you say, they will be angry and upset. In that case, **** em, you did your part and now the ball is in their court to be better. Just try to spend alot of time out at a cafe or a mall. Avoid the home. Meet new people, go to new places.

Just remember that no one has everything figured out. Your parents sure as hell didn't know what they were doing by that age. No one really does. It's so normal for you to not have a set in stone plan, don't let that grate on you.

maybe you should stay with some friends instead of with your parents

I just stayed away from them and not really talk to them. I don't live with my parents anymore or moved back and never talked or seen them in years. I suffer from Depression and more if you know what i mean. Anyway it's best to stay away from my negative parents. They made me this way ANF I hate them.

At least you have a family to live with. Accept that and appreciate it. Some people live all alone in a tiny hole in the wall room, and have no family.