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How to make grandmother and my sister come to terms with each other?

I am staying alone in my birthplace doing an office job managing my expenses and my grandmother lives in the countryside.my sister has gone to Canada for her higher studies and has been there for the last 3 years.i was planning to go there for my higher studies but got refused for visa so I am still here and she saved some money for my college fees if I went there and she gave some money to my cousin brother who she is staying with because he wanted to send money home to my maternal aunt.so the issue is my grandmother got mad at why she gave money to my cousin because she thinks my aunt doesn t need money right now but my sister says that she can t say no to my cousin because he helped her more with her fees .so now I am stuck as to what I should do here because this is a very tricky situation for me and I can t find a way to solve the problem without hurting either of the sides.please help me out guys thank you so much.

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  • 3 years ago

    i would just stay out of it and let them work it out among themselves

  • Mary
    Lv 7
    3 years ago

    This does not involve you. I know it makes you hurt to have two people you love fighting, but there is nothing you can do. Jut try to avoid the subject. They will have to thrash it out themselves like adults.

  • g
    Lv 7
    3 years ago

    Why is this yours to fix? It's really no one's business how much or why your sister chooses to share her money, not even grandma's. Not her money, not her business. The best way to stop drama is to not participate.

  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    You can't "make" anyone do anything. They can do that only by and for themselves.

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