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Kay
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Kay asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 3 years ago

How could someone not know they're pregnant until they give birth?!?

I heard a news story about this girl who was sent to the ER for "severe stomach pains" and it turns out she was in labor but had no idea she was pregnant. How is this possible? Don't these girls realize they've skipped their periods for the better part of the year? Their bodies are changing drastically in pregnancy, don't they realize THAT? They really don't notice that ANYTHING is different? I get maybe not knowing for the first couple months maybe, like perhaps you missed your period because of stress or they're irregular normally. But honestly, how can you carry a baby to TERM and not realize it? Not to be mean or anything...but I think those people have way below-average intelligence.

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  • 3 years ago

    This happened to my grandmother. She spotted through her pregnancy, so she didn’t think anything of it. As it didn’t happen with her other pregnancy. My whole maternal side of the family has also never experienced morning sickness. She also grew sideways and not forward, so she assumed that she was just getting fat. She also felt no movement, in fact they were about to pronounce it as a miscarriage until the baby started crying. The doctors had been unable to find a heartbeat and the child was only 4.13.

  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    Some people can spot their whole pregnancy and not have signs. Others have non regular periods so think nothing of not having one.

    One of the housekeepers where I work didn't find out till she was 6 months. Lucky duck had gained almost no weight gain and had no real signs. I, myself, had no real signs till I started showing as I fall under the irregular period caregory, but I tested every month just to be safe and was trying to concieve.

  • 3 years ago

    My cousin had periods during pregnancy & a crazy cycle & was very overweight. She found out when she was 7 months pregnant!

  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    I also used to think that such stories were ridiculous. But a good freeing of mine, a sensible middle-aged woman called Kim, has recently had exactly that happen to her daughter-in-law (a "big" woman!) who was living with her at the time, with no apparent knowledge that she was pregnant. The daughter-in-law said at about 8am: "Kim, what do birth pains feel like?" Less than an hour later her baby was born, in an ambulance outside the hospital to which she had been rushed, no time to transfer her to the birthing suite.

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  • Edna
    Lv 7
    3 years ago

    At about 4 months pregnant, a woman begins to feel the baby moving. There's no way that you can convince me that a woman who felt a baby moving inside her for 5 more months would not KNOW she was pregnant.

  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    We were trying to have a baby. I just so happen to see a psychic (a gift from a friend because I do not believe in those sort of things, or at least I didn't until then). Anyway, I asked the psychic if I was going to have another baby. She said "Other than te baby you are carrying right now, no, I do not see you having more children." What? I wasn't pregnant and this perplexed the psychic as she said she saw me having a baby in August (it was March at the time of the reading). She corrected herself and said I will either get pregnant in August or have a baby the following August, but she sees a baby in August. Cool, I thought.

    Two days later I went to have a scheduled OBGYN check up and sure enough, the doctor said "You are 16 weeks pregnant". I almost fell off the exam table!! He took out his wheely chart and said "Due date, August 20th". Holy Crap, how could that be. I already had a child, so I KNOW what pregnancy feels like. Yeah, my pants were getting tighter but I thought I was just getting fat. I had not ONE symptom. I had light erratic periods that I attributed to stress.

    I got home that day, which was close to Easter. On Easter Sunday, I informed my family and friends that I had a fertilized egg that will hatch in August. It was embarrassing, for sure. But, typical to the pregnancy, the delivery was uneventful with one contraction, one push and he was born in 29 minutes, including a 15 ride to the hospital. I gave birth to a 8lb 12oz healthy baby boy. Amazing. So, women can be pregnant without knowing. It happened to me. Now, could I not know past 16 weeks after feeling movement, no way.

  • Leanne
    Lv 7
    3 years ago

    Because sometimes you don’t have symptoms. I didn’t know I was pregnant until almost 5 months when I took a test. I was a size 0 until beyond then and had virtually no symptoms at all.

  • NO!
    Lv 6
    3 years ago

    If they use the oral contraceptive pill then they dont get periods perhaps. So they can't use a lack of period for an indicator for pregnancy.

    However, Oral contraceptive pill is not bulletproof usually due to 'poor use' by the patient. If they use it correctly then it is almost bulletproof.

    Moreover, u might think that the mother notices her abdomen growing in size? Right? Well with the current obesity epidemic in the West it might be hard to differentiate a pregnant lady from a fat one.

    So add those two together and u have an answer.

    At the same time some people may be dumb or mentally ill (or both)

  • 3 years ago

    I was six months pregnant with my 4th before I knew and I only found out because of an unrelated ER trip.

    I was using birth control (VCF and condoms), had periods that might not show up for almost a year, no weight gain. By the time I delivered I had gained 5 pounds.

    I did have morning sickness that I chalked up to the flu being passed around for 3 months. Not all women are the same.

  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    Beyond low IQ

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