Should I trust her or not?

Only stick around if you own a home together, kids involved, or alot of years under your belt. She cheated. Point blank. Probably sexual, you will never no. Honestly you dont want too. That is every girls watered down version. Old guy freind, got a little to close... etc etc. Aka bent over the table numerous times. If you love her, have any of the above with her, then go to counsling and try to work through it. Might come out stronger, then again you might not. If your young, no kids, no house, etc... then just move on. Not worth the drama and headache. She is wasting your time. Move on then. Dont look back.

She may be having trouble trusting you. I don’t mean like cheating. Like why can’t she talk to you? Why is she afraid that minor things make you mad? Look ate your own behavior. I’m not accusing you of anything, but you can only change yourself.

Idk about you white folks I think your too liberal in relationships. I would be pissedf at her for doing that. I call that cheating no excuses. I would of dumped her right then and there. Just because your girl call it friends doesn't mean the guy just sees her as a friend. I don't give a f UK if you liberals say its wrong to be insecure for me that is bulshit . cut though the Bullshit we all know guys don't just want girls as friends. We all know every guy is looking for a piece of a ss and p ussy.

She has already broken your trust.

Why are you asking if you should trust her when she has shown you that she is NOT trustworthy.

Trust and honesty are 65% of what makes a relationship work, and she finds it easier to lie.

Sure she regrets it, but people change only over years of effort .. she will lie again. Maybe not about the same thing, but she will lie.

As for you .. learn. You cannot make a relationship work until YOU can work with YOUR feelings. You cannot BE loving until you can face and resolve your emotions so that you do NOT get angry .. not on small things and even not on big things.

As for her, if she "can't live without you", then SHE isn't ready to make a relationship work either. No one ever ends up happier, long-term, in a relationship than they were beforehand. And people who are too dependent expect you to make them happy ... .and that is not how happiness or love works. You will fail in this hopeless task.

And that is why she cheated on you .. partly because you have anger issues, and partly because she has dependency issues.

She's damaged your trust, and it won't be easy to get over that. But it might help to remember that this is actually very common, among both women and men -- when someone is not getting attention, emotional support, and friendship in a relationship, they seek it elsewhere. It would have been better if she had talked to you about this, before turning to someone else, but at least she's trying to talk to you now. Learn from the experience and try to build a healthy, happy relationship with her, where both of you feel safe to share your feelings and have your needs met.

Before all of this happened, one question you can ask yourself is if you're a very possessive boyfriend. If she's restricted from doing a lot of things, then the relationship is toxic, and there is a much higher chance she will leave you or decide that being together is not the best option. If you're not that kind of person and have done nothing to make her feel that way, and she is hiding that guy friend from you because she's afraid that you'll get angry, then there is something wrong there. That can mean that she is really doing something that she shouldn't be doing while together with you. Trust is difficult to gain back. Only time will tell if she's trustworthy or not, but it's best to just trust her once more or just end things for good. Else it will make things complicated.