Would you be like wtf?

So basically I used to mess with this guy. I never told anyone about us- where we would go or do. He used to mess with a girl I know and all of us were cool with each other so we didn't actually hate on each other. So I had heard that he was mean to her and supposedly he use to stalk her and I guess he did something psycho to her and her mom hated him for it. I never indulged in the topIc, I just accepted it with a grain of salt and stayed messing with him. We would just meet up and basically disappear.

After we were done hanging out, we would split and I wouldnt see him for months, and then months later he would reappear in my area, and we would disappear a few more times. At first, and for a while, he was nice to me. But, after a while he began to treat me mean during sex and I didn't like it. He literally video recorded me during sexual exchange and I didn't agree to him doing that. So after that, I just distantly changed my number and I would see him around but I would stay away.

Is this weird or what?