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How to deal with sexual frustration?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months and everything has been pretty good. We both love each other and have expressed a desire to make this relationship last. I have never had a girlfriend before her so she is my first of basically everything. She has dated a few guys before and has done basically everything sexual except actually having sex. She was hurt very badly by those guys and when we started dating, she said she didn’t want that stuff to happen because she wants me to liver her for the person she is and not for her body. I get it and I reached the point of loving her and not her body months ago. She knows that but has told me she doesn’t want to do anything now until we get out of school because she is going to school where we have distance between us. I will be going to that school next year and she said we can talk about it then but I’m just not sure. She has been willing to do sexual things before and because she had negative experiences previously she’s shut off to the idea for awhile. I don’t necessarily need that stuff now but I am getting a bit sexually frustrated. What can I do? I am not breaking up with her that’s not happening. Is there anything I can do though?

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  • 3 years ago

    Clearly, she is hurt from her previous relationships. Give her some time. If you actually can't take it anymore, masturbate.

  • 3 years ago

    Tell her you are frustrated and ask her if she would lay by your side while you took care of your "needs" yourself. Should be an interesting conversation.

  • 3 years ago

    Masturbate or avoid anything sexy

  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    So she's done everything for guys who broke her heart, but she won't do the same things for you? It seems like a lopsided relationship.

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  • kelvin
    Lv 7
    3 years ago

    you can honor her wishes and wait until she is ready

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