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Why has my girlfriend been so hesitant to do sexual things with me?

We have done sexual things before and have done about everything except actual sex. We have a small distance between each other so we only see each other on the weekends. For the past two weeks, she seems to be extremely hesitant to do anything like at all. She has kissed me but that’s the most sexual thing she has done in that time span and it’s just really throwing me off. We’ve had plenty of opportunities to even just make out or something like that but we haven’t done anything at all. I haven’t brought it up because she is typically very sensitive to our sexual life and I don’t want to like force her to do things but I just don’t get what is up with her. It’s just very unlike her with the number of times we’ve been together, that she hasn’t done anything at all. Why would this be?

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  • 2 years ago

    Definitely ask her about it but say something like "Is something wrong?" and make sure you say that it's not because you just want her to have sex with you but because you're concerned that she's acting differently and you're not sure where it's coming from

  • 2 years ago

    Do you flirt with her? Do you take her in your arms and kiss her deliciously? Have you taken her out to a concert recently?

  • 2 years ago

    Maybe you should be kissing her a lot more, deep passionate kisses breathing and kissing on her neck and shoulders might get her turned on again but don't be in such a rush to get sexual with her.

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