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What to do about this girl?
To start off I am very happy with the relationship I am in. We have been dating for 9 months and both love each other. I would never intentionally hurt her and she means everything to me. We have a distance between us though and so our time together is somewhat limited. There is this other girl in one my classes who is pretty attractive. Recently, she has been talking to me a lot and I’m starting to kinda like her. I would literally never even consider breaking up with my current girlfriend and this other girl is also happily in a relationship as well. How do I get these thoughts out of my head? I would enjoy being friends with this girl because she is really nice but I want to stop thinking of her as someone I like. Is this possible?
4 Answers
- BertstaLv 72 years ago
If you are serious about your g/f, then leave the poon alone bro. If you want the freedom to sleep around, you don't need a g/f. You can't have a bet each way unless you are prepared to spin a web of deceit. And you never come out clean.
- 2 years ago
Hearing you are in "classes", I am assuming you are fairly young still, middle, high school or college?
Do yourself a favor, I know it sounds "cliche" - but enjoy your youth. Focus on your school work so you can get a stable career and don't worry so much about tying yourself up in relationships at this time. I am not saying dump your current girlfriend either, but you should do whatever makes you happy.
If you are attracted to someone else, that is fine... and totally normal.. even if you are currently in a committed relationship with someone else. It isn't against the law to find beauty in another human being... we are human.. it's going to happen, no matter how devoted you are to your current partner, just don't cheat.
Now, if you feel as though you are the type to unfortunately be unfaithful, then don't allow yourself to immerse into any sort of serious relationships right now in your life. Just have fun but don't get tied down right now... all it will do is cause distraction which, trust me... 5 years from now, it won't matter 90% of the time when you are young.
All I can tell you from experience at 33 years old... enjoy your youth,
don't strap yourself down to serious commitmets unless it relies on your future such as your school work and career..
