Girlfriend lost trust in me?

This is what happens when we have a big mouth. It's no one's business what goes on inside of your relationship, and this is what you need to express to people when they are nosy - they are intruding.

Start by getting rid of the friends who pressured you. They are immature and they don't respect you or your relationship. You will lose friends as you grow up, this is normal. History isn't an excuse to keep people in your life who are a bad influence. Being willing to make these cuts and stand up for yourself will go a long way towards earning your girlfriend's trust back.

Beyond that, it is going to take time. Drop the pity party and don't make it about you. Do the work, choose every day to be a better person. You can learn and grow or you can wallow and whine. Decide who you want to be.

She was hit hard with shame. Having share a story of you two sex together brings sexual fantasies over the third party. Also for her family, they might despise her for what she done. There are silver line when it comes to personal matters and for friends. To earn her trust, first you need to improve yourself first. DISTINGUISH first what is the silver line between your personal matters and your friends. I know keeping a secret was so hard when it comes to a friend, it is human nature to share something if they can't contain it to themselves.

Accept that this is a life lesson. Then you need to ask HER exactly what it is you need to do to earn back her trust. I bet she doesn't have any idea. The problem with losing someone's trust is that each person has to figure out what it takes to earn it back.

I would encourage both of you to talk about why you were doing sexual things but at least she didn't want other people to know. If she is embarrassed or believes that "good girls" don't do those things, then you two probably aren't mature enough to be having sex at all. I know that probably isn't what you want to hear, but it is time to seriously think about these things and make sure that both of you are mature enough to do those things, are taking appropriate precautions, and are ashamed of what you are doing.

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