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Can you help me understand this? Answer and I'll answer 1 for you!!?

Me and this girl predated for 5 months (she said she didn't want to date over the holidays b/c of how her last bf treated her over the holidays the year before). Some friend drama happened in our group and she ended up breaking up. When she broke up, she said she thought I liked her more than she liked me. Days later she said she was embarrassed by what she said because she said she did like me "A LOT". Days later I told her how I felt and she said she didn't feel the same way she did in November. A few weeks ago (a month had passed) I told her I still liked and cared for her and asked how she felt. Her first words were "I don't know" and that she loves talking to me, spending time with me, likes me a lot, respects me, but that she needs to figure out who she is and that she doesn’t know if she can date anyone right now and that it probably doesn't make sense that it doesn't make sense to her mom or friend. She also has kept a snapchat streak of 40 days now with me and was upset when I broke it after we broke up. We recently went on a mission trip together and friends thought we were still together with how we talked, acted, and stayed around each other. What do you think?

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  • Dave
    Lv 7
    2 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Dude, don't just walk away, but RUN. She is a complete train wreck. There are so many red flags in that story, why on earth are you even still worrying about her?

    She's immature. She's carrying a TON of baggage, and sounds like the type of person that will ALWAYS carry previous relationship baggage with her into every relationship she has.

    You do NOT want to be anywhere near this person. She is toxic. She will break your heart, over and over.

    Source(s): Dated someone just like her. Learned my lesson quick.
  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Same ol' troll.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    You asked this already and we still have NO clue what "pre dated" means. Just accept you are only a friend to her so you can stop asking this.

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