Why hasn't he asked me out yet?

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So me and this guy matched on Tinder about a month ago. We ended up hitting it off on Tinder and after two weeks of messaging each other and he asked me for my snap. Since then, we have been snapping each other daily. To me, it feels like more of a friendship, however, I am confused because he has not been flirtatious with me at all and hasnt hinted that he wants to meet with me in person. We have kept our conversations very friendly and platonic, which I do not mind, but I am just confused as to where this is going and I do not really understand what he is looking for. I know I could ask him myself I just want him to initiate it because I am too anxious to ask and I really don't mind the casual texting. I am just curious and somewhat confused as to why he has not decided to take it a step further, especially since we have been talking for a month. Why wouldnt he have asked me out yet?

Seronyte · Accepted Answer

It feels like a friendship because only guys who are f*gs use snapchat and dating apps and he will never be capable of making you feel like you're with a man, so you automatically assume the role of friends. He's not interested in being your man he just wants to be your male girlfriend/little buddy. If you want some advice, meet a real man in person who isn't interested in apps or talking to women as only friends every day.

Anonymous · Answer

He's keeping you in mind if no other options work out. He figured he's just not that interested after talking for awhile but decided to keep you around as to not be mean about it. I mean, he's not even flirting anymore... And it's been a month. If he wanted to, he would have already taken you out.

Or, you know, you could just ask him out instead...

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Why hasn't he asked me out yet?

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