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Why hasn't he asked me out yet?

So me and this guy matched on Tinder about a month ago. We ended up hitting it off on Tinder and after two weeks of messaging each other and he asked me for my snap. Since then, we have been snapping each other daily. To me, it feels like more of a friendship, however, I am confused because he has not been flirtatious with me at all and hasnt hinted that he wants to meet with me in person. We have kept our conversations very friendly and platonic, which I do not mind, but I am just confused as to where this is going and I do not really understand what he is looking for. I know I could ask him myself I just want him to initiate it because I am too anxious to ask and I really don't mind the casual texting. I am just curious and somewhat confused as to why he has not decided to take it a step further, especially since we have been talking for a month. Why wouldnt he have asked me out yet?

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  • tony
    Lv 7
    2 years ago
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    u just an online backup.if he was interest u would know by now.u ask where is it going when he have shown u several signs according to ur post,You deserve a man to whom you will be a priority and not just a texting buddy. Hence, if you notice that a guy is wishy-washy, just move on! You deserve better than that! Don’t make excuses for him and don’t waste more of your precious time. If he wanted to ask you out, he would! P.S.

    Some men get their fill of feminine energy without ever needing to date you. In some cases, they build stable texting buddies to boost their ego.When a man is truly interested in you, he will ask you out and he will want to see you! No matter what that man has to do, he will fit you into his schedule. If a guy really likes you, he will make time for you and make sure he gets in touch with you.

    If he likes you, you will know it! You shouldn’t ever be left wondering.

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  • 2 years ago

    Try not to think too much into it, he might be thinking the same way about it as you are and is too afraid to ask, meeting in person is probably the best way to answer your question (which he wants to do). Make sure you meet somewhere public first !!

  • 2 years ago

    I already answered this earlier but I guess you didn't like my answer so let me give you another perspective. If he had any interest in developing something special with you he would be trying to, you are just an option to him and he clearly likes having options seeing how he is active on Tinder. You're not the first girl he's added on Snapchat and you surely won't be the last. Take the hints, don't make a fool of yourself by asking him something he's already given you answers to through his actions.

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