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- asked in Social SciencePsychology · 2 years ago

Girlfriend gets very mad after breakup?

I don't get her. Every month she needs to leave me, give me a list of things I did wrong, only to come back after a week and tells me I had time to think.

Mind you she only communicates with me me on text, she cannot argue face to face. That is why she sends a total list on text every month.

It's emotionally draining to the point now she is totally disprespectful when she left me, telling me are you gay? You sure as you're more gay than my gay friends, lol!!

And she said you're the wrose person I ever met! and that people who know me don't know my true self and that's why they say good htings about me.

Is this normal behaviour? Gaslighting? Physcotic?

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  • 2 years ago

    Ask her, thanks for the feedback and why must

    I do xyz behaviour, or do xyz task thanks, if it

    Doesn’t bother me, thanks?

    Come up with you own one fault list.

    Something like, though shall not crisitsis me

    On..... then add the date... do this each day

    And come up with a good counter argument

    Thanks.... provided it doesn’t violate people’s

    Bounries, cultures or orientations, or identity.

    Thanks

    Very best wishes

    Mars

    Source:) Study.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    It sounds like you’re both 12-13.

  • 2 years ago

    Tell her you're finished.

    You do not need a friend like her.

  • 2 years ago

    Physcotic and gas lighting plus some extras.

    Send her a text and tell her y'all are through.

    Just to much drama life is to short for this.

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  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    This is definitely not normal behavior. It would be in your best interest to cut her loose, and find a normal girl. And the next time she asks if you're gay, tell her "yes...You turned me gay!".

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