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Anonymous asked in Social SciencePsychology · 5 days ago

Does this mean he is losing interest?

He said “I won’t leave you because I don’t want to see you cry”

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  • 5 days ago
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    At first one would think, what a nice guy, but then you realizehe he is just hangin in there so he doesn't have to watch you cry, or fall apart.  This doesn't sound good to me!  He is not acting out of love, but out of duty, as if his job is to take care of you.  

  • 2 days ago

    i may be wrong. But, to me, it sounds like, he still cares about you as a person but he doesn't feel attracted to you anymore. At least, not as much as he used to be. He may be falling out of love but still doesn't want you feel hurt because he cares about you, at least as a person. It sounds like how it is with many spouses who have been in relationship for a long time. just my opinion

  • 2 days ago

    Too any people reading too much into this. Its quite possible he wanted to say something more touching but didn't know which words to use or felt uncomfortable... most men are not Hallmark Card authors

  • 3 days ago

    Proper response is "Don't let that stop you". Call his bluff and end his torturous little game.

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  • 4 days ago

    guys generally don't care about anything. we're not girls. we aren't bothered by every single thing in life, only the big stuff,  and if its something we can't fix, we usually stop caring because whats the point of worrying about something you can't change?

    you should watch some mark gungor videos on youtube, he has some advice for couples

  • garry
    Lv 6
    4 days ago

    you eat spaghetti for 4 weeks and you get tired of it , being with you and he gets tired of it , just the normal human re-action .

  • 5 days ago

    We have no idea what he meant by that.  We are not privy to his thoughts nor are we mind readers.�� No crystal balls, no tarot cards....   He must love you to not want to see you cry.

  • 5 days ago

    I don't know about you, but I wouldn't ever care to be with someone who's not as devoted to me as I am to him. Just let him go and find another.

  • 5 days ago

    It seems he did say goodbye.

  • El
    Lv 4
    5 days ago

    Sounds like he’s already lost interest but doesn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. That being said there’s not much context here...

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