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Does this guy like me?

So I’ve been talking to this guy for a couple months now and he’s taken me out for breakfast and to the movies a couple times. So we were having this conversation joking around on Snapchat and here’s part of it:

Him: I’m a thug lol

Me: A big headed thug lol

Him: you like this big headed thug

Me: maybe I do

Him: I’ll remember that the next time we hang out

What does he mean by that? And I’ve noticed that he’s kind of quiet ( I’m quiet too ) and hasn’t made a move on me... idk what are your thoughts? Sorry if this was all over the place btw

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  • Janet
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    He is dating you.

    These are the indicators you need to know:

    (1) If he asks you out, he is interested in sex. MAYBE interested in you. He may never be interested in YOU. But if he is, he cannot like you yet, because he doesn't know you yet.

    (2) If he is STILL dating you 6 months later, the you know he LIKES you.

    (3) If he asks you to marry him - as long as you two have been dating at least a year - he LOVES you. Note that asking you to marry him before a year means he is in love with being in love, NOT in love with YOU, and once the honeymoon is over, he will stop wanting you.

    Also note that asking you to move in with him is not an indication of love.

    In other words, only time will tell.

    Understand that you should NOT look to a relationship to try to make you and your life happy, or to provide safety/security.

    First, because too many relationships break up, so YOU have to be your own source of safety/security.

    But also because once the honeymoon has died out, we are NEVER happier with our partner than we were happy beforehand. And if we were unhappy/discontented with our life before, once the honeymoon dies out, we become even MORE unhappy.

    So if you are whole, happy, confident .. then you can tolerate waiting a year or two to see what happens between you two.

    Who knows ... you might find somewhere before then that he isn't who you thought he was and you cannot stand him any longer. Or HE might decide that about you.

    So don't get all excited over a couple of dates. The first year is a trial time during which we try each other on to see if they fits us well. And minds can change anytime.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    I think he's bragging about his dick, hence the "big head" comment, he wants to get laid.

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