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Should I lose my virginity?
Okay, so I have been seeing this guy. So far we have been on two dates, each date lasted 8-12 hours. We get along really great and there is a lot of chemistry between us. I have not felt this type of chemistry with someone in a really long time. Based on our conversations, it is quite obvious that he would be down for sex. We have not done anything remotely close to sex but based on subtle actions and verbal cues it is clear to me that he is interested in doing that. He has not pressured me AT ALL or even asked me directly and it is evident that he also wants a romantic relationship as well.
He mentioned to me that he is a virgin so we would essentially be losing our virginities to each other. Should I allow this to happen? Or will I regret it? I feel like I am at a place in my life where I feel ready to have sex but I am worried that if I do have sex with him, it will destroy this connection we have or I will regret not waiting it out for someone I am in love with. Would it just be best for me to wait?
Also, we are both 19 years old.
2 Answers
- 2 years ago
Just do it. People make virginity seem like some big deal, it’s not. You won’t feel anything emotionally or mentally different. Even if you break up.
- Anonymous2 years ago
If you want to have sex, do it when you both want it, not just because your partner wants it. That way you are both in on it and it is going to be a better experience.
It's still a personal decision if you want to have sex or not, so you also have a good reason to wait.