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Should I lose my virginity?

Okay, so I have been seeing this guy. So far we have been on two dates, each date lasted 8-12 hours. We get along really great and there is a lot of chemistry between us. I have not felt this type of chemistry with someone in a really long time. Based on our conversations, it is quite obvious that he would be down for sex. We have not done anything remotely close to sex but based on subtle actions and verbal cues it is clear to me that he is interested in doing that. He has not pressured me AT ALL or even asked me directly and it is evident that he also wants a romantic relationship as well.

He mentioned to me that he is a virgin so we would essentially be losing our virginities to each other. Should I allow this to happen? Or will I regret it? I feel like I am at a place in my life where I feel ready to have sex but I am worried that if I do have sex with him, it will destroy this connection we have or I will regret not waiting it out for someone I am in love with. Would it just be best for me to wait?

Update:

Also, we are both 19 years old.

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  • 2 years ago

    Seeing that you're both virgins and you get along so well, It sounds like he'd be the perfect man to lose your virginity too. Sex with him would only cause issues if you only desire was to remain friends, but it doesn't sound like that at all. Why are you having questions about this?

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