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Is the guy I am dating a player?
Hi everyone. I am 19 years old. So far, I have been talking to this guy I met from Bumble for about three months. Within this time frame, we have gone on about five dates and typically communicate with each other almost every day via messaging. However, I am just very confused as we have gone on all these dates and he has not made a move on me yet; the most we have done is just hug. Through text, he will call me endearing names ("beautiful" and "cutie") and will tell me intimate things such as "miss you" and "wish you were here." Also, I am pretty sure he could still be active on Bumble.
He is still persistent on communicating with me and making plans to see me yet I just feel like I may potentially be wasting my time with this connection. On his profile, it says he is looking for a relationship yet it has been three months of us in communication and his actions do not really reflect the relationship-seeking status. What should I do?
4 Answers
- Alan HLv 72 years ago
Maybe , underneath , he is a little shy.
He does not want to lord you by coming on to you too soon.
The encouragement is in your hands
- Anonymous2 years ago
For all this supposed "communication" going on, the two of you don't seem to actually communicate. Perhaps you should try it.
- ?Lv 42 years ago
It is probably a bit too early to tell whether or not he is a player. So far, everything sounds fine. You have gone on dates, you communicate daily, and he seems to genuinely like you and enjoy your company. I'm certainly not definitively telling you that he is NOT a player, I just don't think there is anything at this point that would suggest it. The fact he has not made a move is actually a good sign, in my opinion. Maybe he is just respectful and doesn't want to take things too fast. Typically players make all the right moves, get what they want, and move on. If a guy communicates daily and enjoys being with you with no sex involved, I would find that very flattering. Again, it's probably too early to say for certain, but I don't see any red flags at this point.
- 2 years ago
does he know that this is more of a serious relationship to you? or is he just out fishing?
