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Ex-friend keeps asking for friend request on LinkedIn but I don't trust them?

I used to have this friend (I'm a woman and they're a man). We were quite good friends for a while but they started to get the wrong idea about me and our relationship, thinking I was romantically interested in them when I wasn't, and things started getting a bit heavy. It got to the point where it got very uncomfortable and it felt very awkward, because they didn't seem to understand that I just wanted to be their friend and nothing more. I ended up breaking off with them, even blocking their number so they couldn't contact me. However, for the past two years since I stopped talking to them, they occasionally ask for a friend request on LinkedIn. They don't seem to get the message that I'm not interested even though I am consistently ignoring and blocking them. It's a shame in a way that we're not friends anymore but I don't trust them to just be a friend, because I got back with them before after we broke friends for a while and they went back to their old ways, thinking I wanted to take our relationship further again. I don't want to be mean and tell them to get lost and I don't want anything to do with them because I think they're a creep, and a part of me wants to reconnect with them, but I just don't trust them. I get very nervous whenever I think of the way they used to treat me. They were quite manipulative as well, telling me things other people had said behind my back to get me to side with them, and I wasn't having that. What's the best thing to do?

Update:

I am open to the idea that they are sorry and realise what they did and are willing to just be friends, but we've broken friends before, and I made up with them because I wanted to give our friendship another go and thought they'd realised they're mistake, but it just went back to the same old misled misunderstanding of our relationship, which is why I'm so hesitant to get back in contact with them because I'm worried it'll happen again this time.

Update 2:

*they're - their mistake

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  • 2 years ago

    Just block them and don't waste your time thinking about them. You don't owe them anything.

  • 2 years ago

    Then don't do it, especially on a site for jobs, theirs no tell what he may or may not do.

  • 2 years ago

    Ignore their friend requests. My guess is he tries everyone now and then because he enjoyed being a creep, and misses those days. You've been doing the best thing: ignore and block.

  • 2 years ago

    Ask him to stop and then block him

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  • 2 years ago

    Wise decision, just ignore this person.

  • 2 years ago

    You already seem to have your mind made up BUT do not let ignorance blind you, If you refuse the friend request and constantly block him then do not in another breath say you wish you could still be friend. Everyone deserves a second chance maybe he ALSO wants to just be a friend realising he made a HUGE mistake and just wants you to know how sincere he is in apologising? Do not dissolve to becoming and ignorant woman who thinks they are better than others because of whatever magical factor

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