Bf got frustrated and felt pressure with putting on a condom ?

Yes many young guys fail their first attempt at sex and what happened to you 2 is quite common. I have heard many guys who had problems of erection problems or came before they were properly inside their girl. It is very frustrating for the young guy who has never had an erection problem before in his life. It can be from performance anxiety where the pressure the young guy feels to be good at sex wanting to please their girl can actually cause them to fail in keeping an erection. I remember it happening my first time and the girl was good and gave me a bit of oral sex and I got hard again and sex was fine after that. Maybe next time you put the condom on your boyfriend and make it part of the sex and there is a reasonable chance he will stay hard and erect. Do not have sex without the condom as no teenager should be risking sex without a condom as many teenagers make contraception mistakes.

Both of you should try and experiment with massage and forget the sex at the start and concentrate on making each other's body feel good and likely if you handle his penis and testicles he will get hard again and will be ready for sex. Do things like shower together and soap each other all over and concentrate on making each other feel good and as I said after an hour of pleasuring each other you handle his penis and testicles and when he is erect you fit the condom and likely all will go well. Good Luck.

My first time having sex was crazy. It was at the beach, in the back of my car. We fumbled around getting undressed.. then had to get positioned right. She did say she had sex once before. This was the mid 70s.. nobody used condoms back then, everything was wide open. My dick was hard as chinese algebra, and, I was pretty excited to say the least. She was pretty excited, and wet. I FINALLY got it started into her.. pushed deep and that was it. I came with 3 pumps. What was crazy is that I had orgasms from masturbation... but THIS time it was night and day. I thought I was going to pass out from the exhilaration. After a few minutes I calmed down, I apologized. I had left it inside while we laid there. Pretty soon I got hard again and asked her if we could do it again. "Sure" she said, "go ahead, just don't come in 3 seconds huh?" and laughed. I think I lasted 20 minutes!

Not long ago I reconnected with her after 45 years. We laughed about our "time" at the beach, privately of course. Just talking about that incident had us laughing.You'll have to figure out why your guy is losing his hard on

Not cool. He should be using one every time and you shouldn't have to beg for him to do it. I would also suggest your boyfriend try out a penis health creme... I use one I found online and it's loaded with vitamins and amino acids- even shea butter! I highly recommend it.

   He needs to calm down. Talk slowly, talk comforting.. tell him to relax.. everything is fine. Reminds me SO much of my first time its not funny. I was SO amped up when my girlfriend was naked in the back seat.. legs spread. I was trying to get the condom on but couldn't.. I cussing under my breath. I had it on like halfway, I was gonna just go ahead with that but she said shook her head no.. "Take it off and come here"

.. Took me 2 seconds to get over the seats and on top of her. I was so excited I tried and tried to get it inside her without much success. When I FINALLY did get in, I slid in a few inches and couldn't get it in any further without some serious pain. I messed around pulling it out and pushing in to the point where I couldn't go much further. Ther was not a lot of space to play but I tried. She was also extremely tight, which made it hard to do a lot down there. Over time we worked on me going slower. But, that first time was terrible.

I remember the first time I had sex (in the back of my car), it was extremely difficult to put on a condom. I'm not freakishly huge or anything, but I do have girth - so it was extremely tight. I didn't lose my erection, and had no problem performing, but it was uncomfortable. I did this a few more times before learning about Magnum condoms.

If he's relatively normal size, he should just practice rolling one on himself a few times - or you can practice doing it with him and make it part of foreplay like someone else mentioned. Condoms can be a pain, but they are necessary as part of a layered approach to preventing pregnancy and disease.

I recommend you get on birth control, and even with the condom - he should still pull out. Just in case. The vast majority of 'accidental pregnancies' can be prevented this way.

Yes, boys need t o practice putting these things on !!

Very common for men to lose erection under pressure.

You could learn to put it on for him but otherwise not

much you can do.

Can you two find somewhere cosier than a hotel room.

Maybe make putting on the condom part of foreplay rather than it being just some task that must be completed.

You two aren’t ready for sex if you’re that flustered over a condom.

Why don't you just go on birth control? Get rid of the condom.

You can wait until you are both ready.