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I have not heard from my boyfriend in two days?

So my boyfriend (M20) and I (F19) have been dating for around six months. We usually speak to each other every-day and rarely go a day without contacting one another. This past weekend, I attended his grandma's wedding so we spent two days together and were in each other's company for the majority of that trip. The trip went really well and we left on a good note. A couple of hours after he dropped me off after the wedding we made plans to watch a movie together on Wednesday, a couple of days after the wedding. However, today is Wednesday and I have not heard from him since we made these plans after the wedding. He typically takes the lead with most of our plans so this behavior is really unlike him. And, he will usually send me something during the day to show he is thinking about me.

This is the longest we have gone without communicating with one another. Should I send him a text asking if plans are still on? Or should I just wait for him to reach out? Also, should I be worried about this? 

Update:

It has been two days of him being MIA and also, it is late afternoon so I should've heard from him by now.

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  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Honey, if you don't know what to do in this situation,then maybe your relationship is not as strong as you think it is. If you are really worried about him, then why wouldn't you send a text to check that he's okay. The fact that you cannot contact him at all, leads me to think something is going on. BTW, how do you assume that some random stranger is going to be able to guess what's really going on IRL? You need to learn that a true relationship includes communication. You should be able to contact him. IMO, something is up. Its up to you to figure this out. UPDATE: After reading another post that says you met him through bumble, this is now no surprise, meeting people through sites like Tinder and Bumble is sketchy. You are likely to end up with clowns, players, and lots of married men. You need to do a background check on this dude.

  • P
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    It's exhausting always being the one to make first contact and the plans.  If you haven't tried calling him you set yourself up on this one.  If you want to know what's up stop asking people on the internet and give him a call.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    lol I mean why can't you just text him and ask? He could've forgot about the plan or got busy with everyday life. Playing these waiting games is immature. Why sit around waiting and being confused? Just text him / call him and ask.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Of course it's acceptable to send a text to find out if your plans for Wednesday (today) are still on.

    I smell a troll laying bait...

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