Should I say stuff it and stretch my ears?

Why? Why do you want to? And what does being a photographer have to do with it?

If you like the look and can live with it forever - go for it. I don't think they will shrink back to normal after healing - I'm not even sure they can be surgically repaired to look normal.

Can I just say while it's your choice, your body, and I am all for people doing whatever body modifications that they want... I'm like... I've hung around with A LOT of people who do body mods, and see ears being the one done most in my social circles. And I rarely see ears shrink back when they go bigger than 6g if I'm being honest. And I've seen a lot of people with them stretched... You should be fine career wise as a photographer, but it might mess up your chances for big, well paying, "fancy" events. No offence. I personally have nothing against people with it done, in fact I started the process when I was a teen. But I literally had a friend who at one point almost lost a catering gig cause her's are 0g. The person who wanted her company agreed to select her catering company SO LONG AS my friend wasn't physically present at the event as the coordinator thought the spacing was unprofessional and unsightly...

The way you asked this, I honestly thought you were talking about ear sex.

I don't see the point in doing that tbh. Are gauges even still in?

I mean if you want to, go ahead. I just don't see why