When was the las time you were in a relationship? And was it hard for you to move on?

Depends how much that person had an affect on me, and how it ended. If I was more emotionally invested, it would be harder and take longer to move on. If they did something I strongly disliked that I consider disloyal, it would make it a bit easier to move on because I don’t waste time being sad over people who don’t care about me. If it was a falling out over a petty argument and miscommunication I’d feel crushed, even if I chose to walk away but only because it seemed like their heart wasn’t in it like I thought. I’m guilty of deleting everything that reminds me of them so I don’t feel hurt 

2 years ago. Probably because I started working night shifts I haven't managed to find another girlfriend.

Was it hard for me to move on? I suppose not really. I'm 23 but I've already realised that there are so many women out there. If it doesn't go well with one, there are millions more out there that things might go well with. So in that sense, I'd accepted that the relationship is over and things are done pretty much immediately. I've also liked other women since her and have tried going out with a few to no avail. But at the same time I still think of her from time to time even 2 years after our relationship. To this day she is still the most beautiful woman in the world to me. So I guess in that aspect I'm not over her.

But I'd still consider myself over her if that makes any sense at all.

As for the rest of it, I don't do social media. Or at least not things like facebook, instagram, twitter etc. That kind of social media. I just don't see the point in it and never use it even if I have it. Last time I touched facebook was when I were 11.

I still have a photo of her. But I never really took photos much either.

I'm very much a 'live in the moment' kind of person. So these things don't apply or appeal to me.

What did I do to move on?Well it's rather simple. I just know that I can live without her.

That I don't need her to enjoy my life, that I can have fun on my own and do things without someone else to support me. I just don't need her.

Once I remember that, I can move on pretty quickly. After a week of being sad, i'll get on with it and life will go on.

To reinforce that, I do a lot of different things. I go off with my friends to do things, I go to a club and just let loose to remember that it doesn't matter what people think of you, I go and do things that I enjoy. Even if it means being alone sometimes.

The biggest thing I can do to get over someone is to find someone else I'm attracted to and then get close to her. Flirt a bit and make her my new objective. A new "love" to replace the old one.

I'm 38 and have never been in a real relationship.

I think having crushes that one never even gets the chance to date and "prove themselves" is way worse than being in a relationship and then out of one - I imagine that when/if a relationship ends - it's because of too many differences and too much bickering.

I think ordinary people, even though a relationship ends and it just feels bad to be alone for even a short period of time - should count their blessings knowing that a new one will happen.

For me... I have to start preparing for being that weird old guy that the whole neighborhood is scared of lol.

I didn't ask for this.