Does it seem the guy I’m dating lied to me? Please need answers ?

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Have the guy I’m dating (we are serious) password to his Instagram and I saw he got a dm from a spam account reaching out to a link to a real persons insta for like dating/hookups. I told him about it on FaceTime he went to look and to me it was like his face brighten up and he laughed and he enjoyed it cause he thought it was funny since he never gets anything like that and he told me as we were talking he was deleting it. I didn’t like his reaction to it when he was reading/looking at it but he was saying he has a sore on his inner lip and that’s why he licked his lips which I believed cause he does link his lips a lot and he just simply found it funny. He went to bed and when I went to look on his insta I don’t see that person on his block list. So he lied? It sucks cause I had a fight with him before bed and he said how he wish I could trust him more but hopes it will change when we spend more time together we are distant right now

Foofa · Answer

Sharing passwords is the bailiwick of the insecure and almost always leads to misunderstandings and drama (which is precisely why some do it, to create chaos so they feel alive with all the het up emotions that follow these events).

T J · Answer

Move on................................

! · Answer

It doesnt really matter, because whether he did or not, the fact remains that you dont trust him, which is the real problem with your relationship now. The best thing you can do right now is trust that he did what was necessary.

Anonymous · Answer

i mean no offense when i say this, but you sound a bit like my ex. So i think honestly he laughed cause you think he was up to something bad like messing around when  the reality is it was just a random spam hook up ad.  idk for sure though, like did he say he blocked her and then didn't? he knows u have access to his account so i doubt he would be that dumb. within the first 2 months of our relationship with my ex, i showed her this girls texts to me who was into me before we got official, i told this girl in texts i have a girlfriend, my ex did not like that i texted her back and threw such a fit, crying, laughing like a crazy person, wish i took that as a sign and left then and there, fast forward 5 years, i ignored a lot of signs, don't be that  chick, also don't be dumb, it's a fine line, i hope you can judge it well and i hope this did not offend you, i keep it real and that is my opinion, nothing against you, you could be the best gf in the world to this guy for all i know, i just think you are overthinking it out of fear and maybe a cynicism towards men.  based off what you said i have had random stuff appear on my feeds and been called out by a girl about it ( my one and only ex) and acted like your guy. i now have trust issues myself so i get it sort of -.-

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Does it seem the guy I’m dating lied to me? Please need answers ?

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