Boyfriend told me he doesn’t understand why at my age I don’t want to have sex? ?

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I’m 28 and I’m saving myself for marriage. He knows that since the beginning. He respected that. But yesterday he was like “ come on at your age I don’t know why you don’t want to have sex, I’d understand it if you were 17 but you’re 28 already. What difference is it going to Make? I said “ maybe not to you but for me it makes a huge difference.” I told him i was bummed that he told me that. It made me sad to Think That he was judging me now. He even told me that I looked crossed eyed on my work I’d picture. It hurt me. And told me I was being really sensitive. The ****? Why would he tell me those things?

Anonymous · Answer

Girl dump him.

Raja · Answer

He is trying to find out whether he could get you to change your mind so that he could have sex with you .Ignore his remarks .Stick to your principal to save yourself for marriage .You are a good example for other girls of 28 to follow.

Ron Akia · Answer

If he doesn't respect you, perhaps you need a new boyfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

"Cross-eyed", not 'crossed eyed'. This is unfortunate, but I'm not sure what your question is. What are you actually asking us if you're not just trolling?

No real question, huh? Ok then, I guess we just assume you're a troll. Thanks!

tony · Answer

let him know it is a lack of respect, then stick to ur guns,if he loves u he will value and respect how u feel.if he walks let him, u would have dodged a bullet. If you are clear about what you want which is not having sex before marriage, then move on and find someone else who wants the same. Forcing each other to do things the other doesn’t want to do is not good. One person will always lose. Find someone who wants the same thing as you.

Seronyte · Answer

He should of left you a long time ago if waiting is not what he wanted, after all you did make it clear in the beginning so you did your part.. however, I will impart this knowledge to you.. Your p*ussy ain't special. No one is going to appreciate the lack of experience you bring into the bedroom. You may not realize it now, but relationships are 60% sex. It's what separates you from just being friends. Relationships/marriages have been ended over bad sex. So just keep in mind while you're 'saving' yourself, you may actually be shooting yourself in the foot in the long run.

Mismatched Tube Socks · Answer

He sounds like an average guy.
You stick to your guns. If you value your beliefs, he will respect them in the long run.

Anonymous · Answer

So you what you are doing is smart, I suggest dump him. If he can't respect that then he shouldn't be a part of your life. He only wants to have sex and if he can't wait like a sensible person you shouldn't be with him. That is my opinion but I hoped it helped :)

Anonymous · Answer

He shouldnt pressure you into it, dating isnt about sex, I'm 17 even and if my girlfriend doesnt want to i have no problem with that

? · Answer

The real question is, why are you still with him?

You need to find someone who will accept you as you are. He is not accepting it. I don't even understand why he would stick around if he's not going to wait. I guess its time to break up and find someone else.

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