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she’s pregnant and she’s keeping the baby ?
i’m 17 i don’t wanna be a dad
9 Answers
- ♥Sweetness♥Lv 72 months ago
If you didn't want to be a dad you should have kept your hardware to yourself and not messed around. She has every right to keep the child, and if she is doing so then you need to get a job and help support the cost of the baby. This is exactly what happens when you mess around, now it is your responsibility to help take care of the mess you created.
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- JoeLv 62 months ago
You should have thought of that before you had sex with her. What's done is done and you will be a father whether you want to or not. How involved you are can be up to you but chances are you will have to provide financial support to her and the baby, Dad.
- Rock The BoatLv 52 months ago
Have you told her this? Ask her if she's considered how this will limit her work/ study opportunities for the next 18 years. You're young and clearly not ready. However that could change. You can not force her to change her mind but you can try. Stay calm and be supportive when you talk to her.
- IvanLv 62 months ago
Such is life young man. Perhaps you can convince her to put the child up for adoption. Explain to her that your capacity to support the child is next to nil, because of school. Tell her you are not at all interested in starting a family yet and that her pregnancy is a mistake. Maybe you will be able to make her see that adoption by a family would be the best course of action for the child. You will probably need to be a bit more articulate in your talk with her than you were in writing your question. I'm betting you can do it though. You were smooth enough to convince her to let you in. How old is she?
- RobertLv 72 months ago
So what? You did it and now you have to pay for it. Or you could stiff the taxpayers but I do hope that they have resources to garnish your wages in your state. Don't cry and complain about something you did. You owe 50 percent and she owes 50 percent. The tax payer owes you nothing. Get a job and stop whining.
- 2 months ago
Sadly, my friend, we have to deal with reality as it is, not how we would like it to be. It is too late to say you do not want to be a dad if you have already become one. We are all wise after the event when we should have been wise BEFORE the event. Whatever happens, we man-up and face our responsibilities. Good luck.