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What do I do when a guy wants me to give him a hand job and I don't want to?!?! ?

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    Leave the situation

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Umm dump that thirsty low life

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Buy him a Playboy®

  • Alan H
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    What do you do?   Nothing.   Indeed you should do nothing that you are uncomfortable with.  Do not be pressurised 

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  • 1 month ago

    Just say no. If its something you dont wanna do then you dont have to do it.

  • 2 months ago

    Kayla, Just simply tell him that you don't want to do that and, if he insists, tell him you're done with him.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Is it a work colleague or is it your boyfriend. If its your boyfriend then you either want some sexual fun or you don't, if you don't then he'll find someone else. If it's just some guy you know that's pestering you for some extra curricular activity, well then that's up to you. You either want to dance or you don't.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    You tell him "no". 

  • 2 months ago

    Politely say no.  If he ramps up the pressure, you'll have to be less polite.

    In general, don't let anyone pressure you into doing something that you don't want to, sexual or otherwise.  Even something as innocuous as pineapple on pizza.  It's okay to be open to being convinced, but if it comes to coercion, walk away - it may be time to break the relationship.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    You say "no, I don't want to".

    Time to learn that phrase. It will come in handy many more times in the future. 

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