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Do guys feel like sex is chore in long term relationships? ?
(read my previous post first for more context) Do men actually like having sex with long term partners or do they do because they feel obliged? Ever since my first semi serious bf I have felt like this because 2 months into the relationship he stopped wanting to having sex he only wanted ********'s I feel like men are excited to and want too have sex with someone new but after awhile they rather just sit back and receive a bj rather than have sex with my current bf I give him head everytime before sex and I feel like he only has sex with me because he feels like he has too
3 Answers
- 1 month ago
@donnie just **** off I'm not spamming anything all I wanted was someone else's perspective because I'm really struggling with this and I've only posted 4 times on this account
- donnieLv 71 month ago
Well I think these questions are getting out of hand and people get off by spamming this **** all day every day
- bubulaLv 61 month ago
Let us not generalize about men, okay? Instead, please look at your behavior. Why are you doing what you are doing? Did he ask? Did you offer? Do you tell yourself he expects it and you do it because you feel you have to?
The two of you are not in a healthy sexual relationship, which by definition is mutually pleasurable. I have a strong feeling you are not communicating what you need, perhaps because you don't trust him to listen (sexual issues always, always reflect deeper issues with the relationship, you know.) If you are close enough to have sex with a partner, you should be close enough to have genuine intimacy with that partner. Genuine intimacy demands conversation about how sex could be better. Start by telling him what you would like to happen, in what order.
Best of luck. His response will tell you everything you need to know about how he feels about you and and whether he cares about you or is, in fact, just in it for the quickest, most effortless sex he can get.
Best of luck.
