charlie

(read my previous post first for more context) Do men actually like having sex with long term partners or do they do because they feel obliged? Ever since my first semi serious bf I have felt like this because 2 months into the relationship he stopped wanting to having sex he only wanted ********'s I feel like men are excited to and want too have sex with someone new but after awhile they rather just sit back and receive a bj rather than have sex with my current bf I give him head everytime before sex and I feel like he only has sex with me because he feels like he has too 

A bit of a touchy subject here but the other day my boyfreind told me I don't put enough effort into sex and tbh I'm not a big fan of going on top it doesn't feel that good for me altho I do do it for him I have issues getting comfortable in bed and I've never orgazimed with him I've never tried to infront of him (idk why but it makes me anxious)but he's also never tried to make me or even bring up the subject am I wrong in feeling like I shouldn't have to do that much work if he's the only one that finishes? Also I just don't have as much passion or as much drive too do much work in bed because there's not much in it for me (not saying it's his fault because I've never bought it up) I'm just really shy about this subject but it would be nice if he took interest in making me ***