Why do men always have to be the adults in the room while women get to act like overgrown children and everyone thinks it's cute?

How is it that a woman can essentially admit to being crazy and she's not put on constant supervision or medication? Too many people think it's normal for women to just behave irrationally and no one does anything about it because that's "just how they are". 

For hundreds of years ladies have been trying to convince the world they aren't crazy. Being accused of being witches and demons simply because it was that time of the month. I believe in equal rights however there is a reason the mentally insane aren't given the same privileges as everyone else. 

So if we are just gonna accept that all women are crazy and there's nothing we can do about it, why should they have the same rights as men? At least when a man does something crazy he is held accountable for his actions. Why is it socially acceptable for women to not think logically? How can a woman ever hope to be taken seriously if she refuses to act like a rationally thinking adult? 

I suppose from her perspective it's all the men who are crazy. So far, mass shootings have only been committed by males and perhaps its the men who literally driving women crazy. However at the end of the day, maturity and masculinity go hand in hand. Society never really expects women to be responsible, they do so to be noticed and not get treated like another ditzy blond. Why is this ok?