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So we've been engaged a little over a year now, and when my fiancé bought my engagement & wedding ring he bought his wedding band also. His Mom pressured him into buying his wedding band also. I was a little bummed that he bought his wedding band himself because I wanted to pick it out. Plus I wanted to get a good quality one that's going to last. Am I wrong for wanting to get him another ring? I don't want to somewhat disrespect his Mom, even though my fiancé will be wearing it

So I just got engaged a month ago on my birthday. We been together about 7 years, since high school on and off. We're in our 20s. We've always had problems, but manage to eventually work through it. We got into an argument earlier, because I didn't really wanna go to the gym, but I was going anyway. He is very harsh with his words and doesn't care what comes out of his mouth a lot of the time, I didn't like what he was saying so I was like let me out the car (we were still in front if the house). Anyways, he ended up coming back in the house saying things like he doesn't want to be with someone who's gonna sit on their butt all day not doing anything. I work a full time job, a very physical job, I'm always exhausted, tired, in pain, I do things around the house..Hes always on his Xbox. But anyways, he thinks I'm gonna get fat and he says he's not happy with how I look, and the fact that I don't work out everyday. I'm 5 1, around 140 lbs, for the past maybe 4 years or so. I'm not fat in any way. But pretty much he doesn't want to be with me if I don't lose weight is what he's saying. And I'm thinking that were engaged right now, if we get married its for better or worse. Not just for better. I don't want to be with him if I need to be skinnier to make him happy. Any thoughts? Thanks in advance....

Okay so I just transferred to my current job, I've had the job about 2 weeks now. My new job is a guaranteed 40 hours a week, I work Tuesday-Friday 6:30pm-4:30am, pay is great. Full benefits and not too far away from home. I'm planning on moving closer to my job next month. So yesterday I get a call to come in for an interview on Monday 3/24 at a hospital about 1 hour away. So I'm trying to figure out if I should go to the interview or not. It would be as a Medical Laboratory Technician, but the position is PRN(which means pretty much "on call", when needed). I haven't worked as an MLT yet, but have been waiting for the opportunity since August 2013. I'm having a difficult time with figuring out what to do. I'm thinking maybe I can go for the interview and see what happens, and if I get the job, I can ask if they are willing to work with me since I have a full time job already. Any suggestions???!!! I need to make the decision pretty much today........

Okay so I've been staying with my boyfriend for about 2 years now, and he wants to move closer to his job plus he wants to start classes at a college. The place he wants to move to is about 25-30 minutes away from where we stay now. But I also work and would have to transfer to where he wants to move too, because I am not going to be traveling almost an hour for a minimum wage job...We get into arguments sometimes(who doesn't), about stupid things and he's always saying things like take your stuff and leave or move out. And after him saying it a bunch of different times, I'm actually thinking about getting my own place. We've been together for about 6 years on and off, we're both 26. I've never had my own place, but I am starting to think that maybe it would be a good idea for me..So now I have to think okay do I want my own place, or move with him? Because the lease for this current apartment is up in April/May 2014. So I need to start thinking about it pretty soon...

I'm about to start applying online for a job in the healthcare field. My resume is complete, just wondering if I need to create a cover page also??

I'm a cashier, I'm scheduled to work tomorrow, but I caught pink eye from my boyfriend and it just spread to both of my eyes.. they are tearing up a lot. And I have to wipe them with tissue every so often. I don't have health insurance right now so I can't really get a doctors note..I'm thinking about calling in, I don't want to spread it to co-workers and especially customers. What should I do??..

I know that United, American, and Delta let you choose where you want to sit, but not sure if Southwest does?? Thanks in advance!

I was wondering what are the best airlines to fly with. In the past I've pretty much only flew with Continental, because I was younger and at home with my parents. But I don't know which one to go with now, and also which website has the best ticket deals. I'm on Kayak right now looking. Thanks for any answers!

I kinda have a clue, but not really sure

My sister who is 17 has had symptoms since last week..It started last Saturday, with a sore throat, then blurred vision the next day, the next day headache, light and sound sensitivity, then severe neck pain which caused her not to be able to move her neck without it hurting. She has extreme fatigue, muscle aches, loss of appetite, chills on and off, and feeling like she wanted to vomit, but hasn't. We took her took to the ER on Weds, they checked her from head to toe, and didn't think it was anything serious thank God. She was given a "headache cocktail" which included a strong pain reliever and an allergy type of medicine given all through an IV. The symptoms caused her to miss school for 2 days. She was getting better till this morning, having severe diarrhea since this morning, it is now 10:30pm, and she seems to be losing a lot of fluid due to the diarrhea which is now clear discolored liquid . And she has blood in her stool now, along with an enlarged abdomen, abdominal cramps, and gas. She still has her other symptoms which are not as bad now. About two years ago she had this same problem with the extreme neck pain, headache, and muscle pain, we took her to the ER that time and they did a spinal tap which was negative thank God. What can cause all these problems? The stool symptoms seem like a bacterial or viral infection/flu not sure about it all. Any ideas?!? We're going to take her back to the ER maybe tomorrow, to see if things get better. Thanks for any ideas!

Okay I've always had abnormal periods since it started. My period skips months at a time sometimes, sometimes it comes every month, every other month, it never comes at the same time. Recently my period lasted about 10 days, usually it's 3, 4, or 5 days. Is this somewhat normal?

My boyfriend is turning 24 this month, and I'm not sure what to do??? I already bout him some presents, just trying to figure out where to take him? Any ideas??? I was thinking like a romantic dinner, I was going to cook for him, I don't know... Thanks for any ideas!

My boyfriend is turning 24 this month, and I'm not sure what to do??? I already bout him some presents, just trying to figure out where to take him? Any ideas??? I was thinking like a romantic dinner, I was going to cook for him, I don't know... Thanks for any ideas!

I'm filing for unemployment right now, trying to figure out if I should put my hourly or yearly wages. Would it matter which one I put???

Okay, I made over $14,000 last year, I wasn't in college classes, I don't have any dependents, don't own a house or anything like that. It's saying my refund is $909. Don't know if this is correct, I deleted my info and put all the info in again, and it's saying the same thing. I don't want to file my taxes until I know for sure this is right. I use TurboTax by the way. So is this correct? Thank you.

I've done my taxes with TurboTax for the last two years. This year it's not letting the info from last year go over to this year, because I chose the Free Edition. So I'm trying to find out where I would put 2009's wages, for anyone that uses TurboTax I would appreciate any help, thank you!

Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together on and off for 5 years now. We're both 23, I'm still living at home right now, he's living with his parents for a few more months, and he's lived on his own for the past few years by the way. He want's me to move to a city about 30 minutes away from here, but I'm not ready to move out yet. I thought I wasn't ready, but a friend brought to my attention that maybe I'm just scared to move out. Which is true. When he was living on his own I was over there almost everyday, and I see how it would be to live with him. It would work out. We've talked about moving in together in the future, and talked about similar things that we want to do in the future. But I didn't know he wanted to live together this soon. But I'm not sure if I should take the risk in a few months, or wait till I'm ready. But then again what if I never feel that I'm ready, should I just move out anyway? Cause he's kinda mad that I don't wanna move in with him yet, I don't know what to do...Any suggestions, opinions? Thanks for any responses!

Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together on and off for 5 years now. We're both 23, I'm still living at home right now, he's living with his parents for a few more months, and he's lived on his own for the past few years by the way. He want's me to move to a city about 30 minutes away from here, but I'm not ready to move out yet. I thought I wasn't ready, but a friend brought to my attention that maybe I'm just scared to move out. Which is true. When he was living on his own I was over there almost everyday, and I see how it would be to live with him. It would work out. We've talked about moving in together in the future, and talked about similar things that we want to do in the future. But I didn't know he wanted to live together this soon. But I'm not sure if I should take the risk in a few months, or wait till I'm ready. But then again what if I never feel that I'm ready, should I just move out anyway? Cause he's kinda mad that I don't wanna move in with him yet, I don't know what to do...Any suggestions, opinions? Thanks for any responses!

Okay, so I have AT&T just bought the HTC Aria last Friday. I have internet on it which was an extra $15 for 200MB, or I can upgrade at anytime for $25 which gives 2GB of internet for a month. Sooo I can't figure out why my internet is being used so quickly, I've been going on the Apps market and downloaded a few things, and it's saying I'm at 90% of my use already and it's only been a week! How do I stop my internet from being wasted besides stop going on the Apps market??? Thank you!

I have AT&T, I broke my phone about a month ago, and want to choose from these two phones. I want a touch screen, but don't really know which one I want.